tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4064423391902022487.post5444919992533338513..comments2023-10-25T03:55:34.566-07:00Comments on Love Street: thoughts after spending an entire day aloneLesliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06210056029582203814noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4064423391902022487.post-25704739841577023092009-05-30T19:21:03.347-07:002009-05-30T19:21:03.347-07:00As an outsider, I definitely don't think life ends...As an outsider, I definitely don't think life ends when you have kids. But, I think I would be having similar anxious feelings if I were in your shoes. Hang in there - Charlie will be worth it. :)amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12029076436322883513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4064423391902022487.post-67061591208069417862009-05-07T08:09:00.000-07:002009-05-07T08:09:00.000-07:00I think about these things all the time, well, exc...I think about these things all the time, well, except for the having a baby part. Its so strange to think that you're becoming an "adult" when you don't even know what that means for yourself.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4064423391902022487.post-26842358885643914922009-05-05T18:48:00.000-07:002009-05-05T18:48:00.000-07:00Never having been in your position, I really do no...Never having been in your position, I really do not have any good feedback for you.<br /><br />I just want to say thank-you for your candid honesty. I think it gives a more accurate depiction of the internal struggles that pregnancy can provoke. It is refreshing and more realistic than the overly-romanticized, rose-tinted lense perspective.Angie Eats Peacehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00966149953616277141noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4064423391902022487.post-11604598687642312362009-05-05T11:41:00.000-07:002009-05-05T11:41:00.000-07:00I have had simelier reactions about getting marrie...I have had simelier reactions about getting married......that's probably why I had a bald spot...lol<br /><br />Anywhoo, let those feelings out, write about it, go ahead and grieve....it is so perfectly normal to have all these feelings. I have had these feelings about losing my identity, being a good wife etc....I STILL DO even after almost two years!!<br /><br />As long as deep down you know for a fact that you are so very lucky to have what you want. because if you bottle up those feelings.....it is going to get worse you know??<br /><br />Enjoy this time alone to reflect and grieve.....<br /><br />So grieve away.....and then forgetaboutit!!......:)Erikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16474170147405873006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4064423391902022487.post-30936623041817979862009-05-05T06:05:00.000-07:002009-05-05T06:05:00.000-07:00I feel like I could write this entry now, except f...I feel like I could write this entry now, except for the fact that I'm not pregnant. Especially "Should I have pursued my dreams more aggressively instead of waiting tables and working in an office? I feel like I've played it safe my whole life, and I am continuing to play it safe...". <br /><br />I wonder about that all the time.inflammatory writhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12923322007776358065noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4064423391902022487.post-81394335076824176892009-05-05T05:49:00.000-07:002009-05-05T05:49:00.000-07:00for me it was boxes of scalloped potatoes and Cape...for me it was boxes of scalloped potatoes and Cape Codders. there was something liberating about not giving a fuck.<br /><br />i can wholly empathise w/ never sleepign w/ another man. i have no desire to do so but it's something that will never happen again.<br /><br />Leslie, be kind to yrself. Yr not going to lose yr identity because of Charlie.phairheadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13613553152292506932noreply@blogger.com